Column A |
Column B |
| Have truth as an objective. |
Have harmony as a goal. |
| Decide more with my head. |
Decide more with my heart. |
Question others' findings,
because they might be wrong. |
Agree more with others' findings,
because people are worth listening to. |
| Notice ineffective reasoning. |
Notice when people need support. |
Choose truthfulness over
tactfulness. |
Choose tactfulness over truthfulness. |
| Deal with people firmly, as needed |
Deal with people compassionately. |
Expect world to run on logical
principles. |
Expect the world to recognize
individual differences. |
| Notice pros & cons of each option. |
Note how an option has value and it affects people. |
| See others' flaws... critical. |
Like to please others; show appreciation. |
| Feelings valid if they're logical. |
ANY feeling is valid. |
Tolerate occasional queries as
to my emotional state in relationships |
Appreciate frequent queries as to my emotional state |
Get the picture? Which one jumps out at you as "just feeling right?" |
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